Question by Twilight: Do Some Men Fear Equality because their Self Worth relies on a Submissive Cheerleader?
No I don’t mean a buxom tweenie yelling your name while you kick a ball. What I mean is the stay at home woman who does all the household chores and tells you how wonderful you are, keeps the place tidy. Looks demure and attractive when friends come round so they all say how nice she is. Builds you up 24/7. That is what I mean by cheerleader.
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Answer by isleofskye
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In the legal field, this is what’s known as a Leading Question, because the answer is implied already in the question…suffice to say, I don’t agree with the question, so the answer would be “no”
First of all a woman here. I don’t fear equality. I don’t believe in it. and that includes equal pay. I don’t buy that feminism bunk either.*I made a few changes in my answer. Here I thought I would never see the day that a guy sides with feminists to cut his fellow man down; just so you know that’s something us women are known to do, and don’t count me in.
Come on now be realisitic for a nanosecond, if you can count that far. What in the hell would you be doing with a submissive cheerleader in the first place? For starters she could never offer you the challenge that you need. So then skip her over and try a woman wrestler. Now being that you would choose the wrestler then it is safe to assume your self-worth is based upon her.* So now I were you I’d take that broom and start sweeping; only if you know to use one.
Besides what and the hell are you talking about whe yourself worth relies on what feminists think. As for Me, my self-worth relies on me and me only; that’s the only way to go.
I’m all for equality, but I don’t think most women want it. Sure, they are all about the equal pay, but many of them aren’t willing to even attempt to do some of the physical work men have to do. Where I work, I have often heard things “They need a man to that,” or something similar.
Or if a man is being an a-hole, men are pigs, but if a woman is being b-tchy, she’s just “PMSing.”
I see your point, but there is plenty of the other kind of sexism, too.
Perhaps.
Although I do know home divas who are comfortable in their role, [they are really in control], while the hubbie is happy and successful…
Some men fear equality then they would have to share stuff like beer camp, Monday night football, and their Penthouse mag.
lol
No, job competition is the fear. It is the basis of modern Racism and Sexism.
No. Those girls you refer to as “cheerleaders” are annoying. I can smell fake people from a mile away.
Men should not fear equality since there will be submissive cheerleaders even after complete utter total gender equality. Let’s assume there is no “gender inequality” among men as a gender, still you can find ample number of candidates qualifying for the job of submissive cheerleader among men, at work, in sports and recreation as well.
Did men and WOMEN oppose when former slaves were given equal rights because their Self worth relied on a submissive cheerleader?. I don’t think so.
But that is my humble and simple opinion. I didn’t mean to offend former masters or slaves or equal rights people or cheerleaders. I assume all these people are worth a ton and responsible members of the society and it is not my intent or aim to discriminate, offend or cause harm to them.
Thank you
Yes, some men fear equality and feminism because of this. I consider them cowards because they’re so desperate to cling to a dominance they don’t really have anyone.
i would prefer it equal. submissive women are boring anyway.
Well, it is both the wife’s AND husband’s “job” to build the other one up — a healthy self-image is necessary for everyone. I can’t speak for all men, but I believe that there will always be some things that women do better than men (in general) and some things that men (generally) do better than women. Equality is not to be feared, but those that pursue equality ONLY for the sake of equality are semi-misguided as well. I told my wife before we were ever married, if she wanted to work outside the home, I would support that, and if she chose to stay at home (we don’t have any kids anyway), I would never force her to get a job. That’s more than equal — she has total control over her employment situation, and it doesn’t bother me in the slightest. Now if she ever wanted to make any major lifestyle changes that would entail a substantial amount of extra spending, she would realize that she may need to get a different job than teaching piano at home to fulfill that. Once again, totally her decision, knowing the financial implications of my current job (that I am trying to leave anyway).
I hope that somewhere in my ramblings I have answered your question — if you need clarification, just e-mail me.
Have a great day!
Whoa! Read your question again.
Does a man fear equality because their self worth relies on a submissive cheerleader?????? No, he has a wonderful time. Clean home, lots of emotional support, attentive, appreciatative, relaxed partner, who is loved by all his friends.
Now I read the implication in your question that the woman is submissive because she is not too smart. WRONG she is submissive because she IS SMART. Look at her lifestyle, I describe a typical day below;
She wakes up half an hour earlier than her man, makes them breakfast in bed, chats to him and ‘cheers’ him while they eat. Whilst he showers and dresses, she makes his packed lunch or books his lunchtime business meeting for him. She gives him a prep talk as he kisses her goodbye and leaves.
Our cheerleader, rings her friends, invites them out for lunch, she cleans, their already clean home, pops some laundry in then spends an hour getting ready to go out. She wanders round buying her ‘star’ something nice for tea and meets her friends for lunch.
In the afternoon, she has time to have her hair done, arrange a supper party for his friends the following evening and have a couple of hours snooze. She invites her friends over for drinks and a movie late afternoon.
Early evening she prepares his meal, when they have left, does some ironing and gets ready for their ‘date’. He arrives home tired, more ‘cheerleading’ a good meal, clean house, couple of hours in bed with him, wink wink and she can then get back up and carry out her own hobbies while he has a sleep.
Sounds like bliss to me, the cheerleader has to be one of the smartest women in my book. No matter how smart she is, she only has to chose a man a bit brighter than herself for her to be happily ‘submissive’ to him. So where is the cost to her?
Right ……. I am off to the Maths section, see if I can find out how to register for the Cheerleading Team, lol.
Never met a woman who did that for me….
Doubt I ever will, and no, i don’t fear equality
Yeah, I guess so – little do they know that the pretty little cheerleader is most likely doing the pool boy on the side…
-No I think some US men fear equality because they fear job competition.
-Other US men fear losing their money.
-Other US men fear losing their kids.
-Some US men want a life like their fathers, where men and women had scripted gender roles, and nothing had to be “worked out”.
-Some US men are religious and use their religion to justify rigid sex roles for both men and women.
-A few US men are paranoid and think every women is out to “get” them, and women are lying in wait, just waiting for the opportunity to accuse them of battering or rape.
-Some US men don’t see the privileges that men have traditionally have, and absolutely refuse to see the advantages they still have. They only see some of the things that have leveled out, or focus solely on changes that have occurred that are not equal or are unfair.
I don’t like inequality or unfairness either, but a few inequalities for men, does not translate into wholesale male oppression, nor does it translate into total equality or superiority for women. It means gender roles are changing, and it can be a painful process in some cases, for both genders. I don’t know of any change movement that was orderly, fair, and totally consistent. Since these types of changes involves people, change is very messy, ranges from unfair to fair, and is usually extremely inconsistent. I don’t see a lot of consistency, order or fairness expressed in the masculinist and men’s movements either. They’re messy too.